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The Fruits of a Good Wife, Part 4

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27She takes good care

of her family

and is never lazy.

28Her children praise her,

and with great pride

her husband says,

29“There are many good women,

but you are the best!”

30Charm can be deceiving,

and beauty fades away,

but a woman

who honors the Lord

deserves to be praised.

31Show her respect—

praise her in public

for what she has done.

Contemporary English Version, Second Edition (CEV®) © 2006 American Bible Society. All rights reserved.
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Reflect

What makes a person – a woman, a man – good and noble is their character, not how much money they have in the bank or what designer clothes they wear or even what other people say about them. Let’s let God change the way we think – then we can please him (Romans 12:2).

Proverbs 31 is a long list of examples of fruits that a good wife may bear. Just as a good and healthy nectarine tree bears sweet but tangy nectarines – good fruit – so too does a wife with good character bear many of the fruits that are provided in this chapter.

In life, there is a constant tension between things of worldly value, and things of eternal value. Being in the world, there is no escaping it. Should we make ourselves look good for our spouses? Yes! In part, because we are to “treat others as you want them to treat you” (Matthew 7:12). We want others to look nice for us. But there is a limit; we don’t go past the point where we are doing it for ourselves alone, and not for them.

Our charm, our looks, things of this type will begin to fade away. They are a blessing from God for some seasons of our lives – but honouring God is something that never fades.

When we take care of our family, and bear the fruit of hard work, they praise us as women of good character. Their praise may point to the hard work as an example, but we know it is the goodness inside that produces that hard work outside.

Wives, seek after good character. Pursue God – he will do the rest. We show you respect because of the great work God has done in you! You deserve to be praised (31:30–31)!

Respond

Father God, you pour out your Spirit and your blessing. Please help me to receive your goodness and to do good to others in turn. Lead me to praise you for the success you bring from the work of my hands for your glory. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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Douglas & Noël Estes

Douglas Estes is Assistant Professor of New Testament and Practical Theology and director of the DMin Program at South University—Columbia. Prior to this he was a pastor for 16 years. He has written or edited six books and contributes to a variety of publications including Bible Study Magazine and Christianity Today. His wife Noël was a Marriage and Family Therapist, before making a career of raising their four children and becoming a DMin student. Some recent publications include: Questions and Rhetoric in the Greek New Testament (Zondervan, 2017) and, as co-editor, How John Works (SBL Press, 2016). Also: "The Exoplanets Declare the Glory of God" (Christianity Today, March 2016).

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