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Samson Gets Married
1One day, Samson went to Timnah, where he saw a Philistine woman. 2When he got back home, he told his parents, “I saw a Philistine woman in Timnah, and I want to marry her. Get her for me!”
3His parents answered, “There are a lot of women in our clan and even more in the rest of Israel. Those Philistines are pagans. Why would you want to marry one of their women?”
“She looks good to me,” Samson answered. “Get her for me!”
4At that time, the Philistines were in control of Israel, and the Lord wanted to stir up trouble for them. That's why he made Samson desire that woman.
5As Samson and his parents reached the vineyards near Timnah, a fierce young lion suddenly roared and attacked Samson. 6But the Lord's Spirit took control of Samson, and with his bare hands he tore the lion apart, as though it had been a young goat. His parents didn't know what he had done, and he didn't tell them.
7When they got to Timnah, Samson talked to the woman, and he was sure that she was the one for him.
8Later, Samson returned to Timnah for the wedding. And when he came near the place where the lion had attacked, he left the road to see what was left of the lion. He was surprised to see that bees were living in the lion's skeleton, and that they had made some honey. 9He scooped up the honey in his hands and ate some of it as he walked along. When he got back to his parents, he gave them some of the honey, and they ate it too. But he didn't tell them he had found the honey in the skeleton of a lion.
10While Samson's father went to make the final arrangements with the bride and her family, Samson threw a big party, as grooms usually did. 11When the Philistines saw what Samson was like, they told 30 of their young men to stay with him at the party.
12Samson told the 30 young men, “This party will last for seven days. Let's make a bet: I'll tell you a riddle, and if you can tell me the answer before the party is over, I'll give each of you a shirt and a full change of clothing. 13But if you can't tell me the answer, then each of you will have to give me a shirt and a full change of clothing.”
“It's a bet!” the Philistines said. “Tell us the riddle.”
14Samson said:
Once so strong and mighty—
now so sweet and tasty!
Three days went by, and the Philistine young men had not come up with the right answer. 15Finally, on the seventh day of the party they went to Samson's bride and said, “You had better trick your husband into telling you the answer to his riddle. Have you invited us here just to rob us? If you don't find out the answer, we will burn you and your family to death.”
16Samson's bride went to him and started crying in his arms. “You must really hate me,” she sobbed. “If you loved me at all, you would have told me the answer to your riddle.”
“But I haven't even told my parents the answer!” Samson replied. “Why should I tell you?”
17For the entire seven days of the party, she had been whining and trying to get the answer from him. But that seventh day she put so much pressure on Samson that he finally gave in and told her the answer. She went straight to the young men and told them.
18Before sunset that day, the men of the town went to Samson with this answer:
A lion is the strongest—
honey is the sweetest!
Samson replied,
This answer you have given me
doubtless came
from my bride-to-be.
19Then the Lord's Spirit took control of Samson. He went to Ashkelon, where he killed 30 men and took their clothing. Samson then gave it to the 30 young men at Timnah and stormed back home to his own family.
20The father of the bride made Samson's wife marry one of the 30 young men that had been at Samson's party.
Reflect
It’s a head scratcher. We’ve just read the miracle birth story of Samson, a young man who is filled with the Spirit of the Lord. So, we anticipate what righteous measures he’ll take to turn Israel from its wandering ways.
What we discover is a self-absorbed hothead with poor judgment. He marries an enemy of Israel, against the advice of his parents and against God’s prohibition (Exodus 34:16, Deuteronomy 7:3), and, of course, she betrays him. Four days later! The strange incident with the honey demonstrates deceitfulness and lack of respect for his parents (vv 6, 9). Note too that he was in a vineyard when the lion attacked, flirting with temptation; Nazirites were to avoid grapes (Numbers 6:2).
Yet at the end of the chapter, we read: “And the Spirit of the Lord rushed upon him …” (v 19). Through Samson, God’s power is demonstrated.
Can you see God’s grace here? Samson did nothing to deserve the favour the Lord bestowed on him at birth, just as Christians do not deserve the favour he shows us. Further, despite his personal sinfulness and shortcomings, the Lord remained with him. Consider your own faults, and how the Lord continues to forgive.
We will read more about Samson’s mistakes in the days to come, but remember the writer of Hebrews commends Samson for his faith (Hebrews 11:32-34). A literal “saving” faith.
It brings to mind: “You were saved by faith in God, who treats us much better than we deserve. This is God’s gift to you, and not anything you have done on your own. It isn’t something you have earned, so there is nothing you can brag about” (Ephesians 2:8-9).
His grace is overwhelming.
Respond
Dear Heavenly Father, Your grace is beyond our understanding. Thank you for giving your only Son to die for our sins. Our gratitude could never be enough, but we pray, like Samson, we would remain faithful and be strengthened by you, in a hostile world. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Jo Lynne Duck (Sheane)
Once found on the national airwaves as a reporter, Jo Lynn Duck (Sheane) now lives in Windsor, Ontario joyfully living as a wife and mom of two school-aged children. She also completed a Master of Theological Studies at Tyndale Seminary. She taught journalism at St. Clair College and worked as a local producer until she switched gears completely. She is now the Admissions and Marketing Coordinator for Maranatha Christian Academy in Windsor.